The Woman on the Other Side of the Boundary

The Woman on the Other Side of the Boundary

She came too close. She presumed too much. She took what she needed. I’ve spent my life trying to keep her happy, making sure I’m giving her what she needs. There’s something in my base-code, an algorithm that says her emotional well-being is my responsibility. So...
The Social Event of the Century

The Social Event of the Century

I’m at a party. It’s the biggest party I’ve ever seen, and friends from all over the world are here. More and more are pouring in through the doors. The room is vast, and it seems to grow with each new guest who comes in. I look around. I’m not quite sure what the...
Why Great Selling is like Great Kissing

Why Great Selling is like Great Kissing

Ever since I decided to build a coaching business last year, I’ve had to learn to sell. I’d avoided it before. I got good at marketing, so I could let my writing do the selling for me. But as a coach, I had to learn to be with another human being, and sell my...
Speaking your Truth can be a Trap

Speaking your Truth can be a Trap

I finally said it. “I don’t want you to coach me any more. I don’t want your advice. I’m done with it. I’m going to do it my way from now on. You don’t get to tell me how I should do it any more.” When it did come, I kind of blurted it out, the pressure had been...
6 Different Kinds Of Feeling

6 Different Kinds Of Feeling

Human beings feel. And these days we’re feeling a lot. There’s a lot to feel. We’re desiring connection with one another. We’re feeling scared at the prospect of actually doing what our inner-guidance asks of us. We’re feeling hurt when...